We make choices everyday. They may be as minute as what type of coffee to have or even if you should stop for coffee. How many times have you made a choice on what to have for lunch or to bring your lunch, and how many times have you made the choice to either cheat or not cheat on your diet.
These are just some choices that play a part of our everyday life and we make choices like these multiple times in our life, more than we can count.
What about the more important choices we need to make. The hard decisions that have to be made.
How do you decide if you should stay home or continue bringing in the second check. How do you choose between the comfort of the money and the comfort of seeing your child grow and learn.
I have not been able to let go of running my household, even thought I am back at work, 4 10 hour days, I come home and still feel like I am the one who has to put her foot down with the cleaning, organizing and finances. When I say "Don't spend anymore money", how does that translate into, "My father and I went to the mall with the baby and I bought lunch".
Where is the balance? I have to get up at 2:00am and I won't get home until about 4:00pm. I really don't want to go, tomorrow or the day after.............not because work its self, I am actually having fun. I just have the desire to be with my son. He needs me........ or is it that I need him?
I keep thinking "We can have that credit card paid off by Such and Such date", then some how we end up putting such and such amount on it.
So how do we choose?
I want to beable to give my son what he needs with out feeling a fincail strain, or putting us more in debt.
How do you balance?
